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Inquiry into how gossip can be stopped.



Andrea Cruz 22 May 2012

Gossips can affect your life so it is important to stop it. In conclusion we need to stop it, one of the ways is don't repeat if you don't know if it is true or not, if you are not interested don't hear it. Another way is if your friends are telling a gossip you aren't intersed in only walk away or change conversation.

Gossips also could be stop telling children that gossiping is bad, to how other persons feel. You could tell a good gossip of a person and then, you will see that, that person will feel better.



Andrea Cruz 24 May 2012 = I found this web site that show why do people gossip and how and why affect people. =

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Juliana Beltran C 22 of May of 2012


 * In this web page I have found 5 ways to stop gossip. I think the most inteligent one is to use your brain first and then your tongue. It is a very intelligent method because if you think what you are going to say maybe like that you could avoid gossip easily.**
 * Gossip Stops When You Use Your Brain First and Mouth Second
 * Don’t Participate in Gossip
 * Short Circuit the Gossip Machine
 * Replace Gossip with Good
 * Apply the Golden Rule

Bibliography:

http://preachersstudyblog.com/2009/10/5-ways-to-stop-gossip/

Natalia Garcia 22 of May 2012

I found a video with a possible solution for gossip that is asking your self why does it matters to you something bad about other people life?

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Andrea Cruz 22 May 2012 I found this image that show a book name How to stop gossip by Annette Adams. ttp://www.google.com.co/imgresq=how+to+stop+gossips+in+school&um=1&hl=es&sa=N&biw=2560&bih=1378&tb

Andrea Cruz 21 May 2012 I found a page were teenagers are telling that they know that gossiping its bad but they can't stop. Its something that don't let them stop.

http://www.kyria.com/topics/marriagefamily/parenting/agesstages/12.41.html

Andrea Cruz 20 May 2012 I found this page that teach about school gossips. This page is very useful to teachers and students for learning what should be done. http://teaching.about.com/od/admin/a/School-Gossip.htm

Andrea Cruz 19 May 2012 I found a page that show how to stop gossips in high school, because were there is more gossips is in high school. There are 85% of gossipers in high school. http://dell13.hubpages.com/hub/How_To_Deal_With_Highschool_Gossip_Or_Rumors

Andrea Cruz 18 May 2012 In this video I found a expert named Marshall Goldsmith talking about how to stop bad habits as gossips and humors.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F-5BHySFb0M

Andrea Cruz 17 May 2012

I found a page were it tells 7 ways of stoping gossips. Don't repeat things if you don't know if they are true or false or if there are necessary to tell.


 * ===Don’t repeat something you don’t know is true firsthand…secondhand knowledge is not enough to justify repeating. You will get something wrong and it will hurt others.===
 * ===Don’t repeat unless its helpful to do so and you have a vested interest in the situation, the people involved, and permission to share…doing so in the name of a prayer request is not a good excuse…===
 * ===Don’t “confess” other people’s sins. Even if the wrong included you and you feel the need to confess, share your story, but not someone else’s.===
 * ===If you must tell, and have passed the test on the first three suggestions, tell only what happened and not your commentary or “I think this is probably what happened” or why you think it happened…===
 * ===Choose to pray for others every time you are tempted to tell their story…instead of telling their story…===
 * ===When someone tells you something you don’t need to know, don’t allow curiosity to be your guide…follow your heart. Stop the person and tell them you don’t want to know! Remember, if they will spread gossip about others they will spread it about you!===
 * ===Keep the circle of confession limited to the people involved or to no more than needed for accountability purposes. The wider the circle and the more the story is repeated the more likely things will turn into gossip.===

http://www.ronedmondson.com/2010/08/7-ways-to-stop-gossip.html

Andrea Cruz 16 May 2012 I found a web site were there are 5 ways to stop gossiping. One is to replace gossip for good gossips and another one is not to particpate in gossips. Have a look at the web site. []

Andrea Cruz 15 May 2012 I found this image that show a campain that some children did. It show that alot people want to stop it but it is very difficult, but you could help.

Andrea Cruz 14 May 2012 Here is a web site were I found information of how to stop gossips, one of the strategies were when some one ones to tell you a gossip and you aren't interested in you only need to walk away or change conversation. []

Andrea Cruz 14 May 2012 Here i found How to deal with a negative gossip, if you enter you will found that all people like gossip and we read and write about other people and specially celebrities we never let them alone we always invent gossips about the like: JUSTIN BIEBER AND SELENA GOMEZ BROKE UP. http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Deal-With-the-Negative-Effects-of-Gossip&id=3536918

Andrea Cruz 14 May 2012 If there are a lot of gossip in your school what you do? I found the perfect page were tells a lot of kids and teenagers point of view like one say that gossips are fun and first times you hear them and create them but when friends invent something bad about you and become a gossip is hard to be find in that moment. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080106093310AAja4nG

Andrea Cruz 14 May 2012 her i found the page were they tell the answer of why gossips affect different communities here is the answer show by a expert in a psychologically way, she say that they never tell the true. And that they invent gossips because gossips are like hobbies.

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_does_gossip_affect_people_psychologically

Andrea Cruz 14 May 2012

Did you know why gossips affect other people, because they spread so fast that its like a broken phone that each time the gossip arrive to someone she or he change it one word like: AMELIA LIKES BUBBLE GUM the person change it like this: AMELIA DONT LIKE BUBBLE GUM.

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_does_gossip_affect_other_people

Andrea Cruz 14 May 2012 I found a page that show why people are motivate to tell gossips and it is for a simple reason they like putting special persons down or because they think they will have a better future like seeing better in front of the boss. http://etiquette-social-situations.knoji.com/what-motivates-people-to-gossip/

Andrea Cruz 14 May 2012 In this page you will find why gossips affect other people by the teenager point of view, say that if he see it everywhere and here it everywhere so what is bad about gossips have look. And tell me your perspective. http://www.helium.com/items/1267176-the-harmful-effects-of-gossip-teen-advice

Andrea Cruz 14 May 2012

In this magazine I found that gossips can damage your vision as well as the judgment. The name of the magazine is discover magazine.

You’re chatting to some friends at a party and they point out someone standing in a different part of the room. That person, they inform you, is a nasty piece of work. He cheats on his girlfriend. He picks fights with strangers. Once, he bit a puppy. You’d never seen him before but after this character assassination, you start noticing him everywhere – in other parties, on the street, on Facebook.

This sort of thing happens all the time. If we get information about people from third parties – gossip – we start paying more attention to those people. There’s a simple reason for this. Gossip, especially negative gossip, affects not only our judgment, but our vision too. It influences both what we think about someone and whether we see them in the first place.

preview knowladge Andrea Cruz 17 May 2012 Gossips is something difficult to stop but you could help you stop gossiping. You only need to stop gossiping, every time you gossip someone somewere is feeling very bad. So only think about it.