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Gossips Lies:

To Gossip is Human
I'm not a big fan of [|rumors] and gossip simply because content of this nature is usually filled with misinformation that I don't need to know about other people. But it's impossible to socialize and not get pulled into a wee bit of gossip and idle chatter no matter what social circle you might be in. Being human, everyone wants and needs to communicate with each other. And, through the art of communication comes [|gossip]. Sometimes we listen to gossip because there is a bit of truth in the mist of what is being said that might be important information to us. But to hear this smidgen of truth, we have to listen in on a host of fabrications and exaggerations. GOSSIP IS USUALLY NEGATIVE TALK AND CAN HURT FEELINGS: Did you even notice that gossip is always a big juicy [|tale] with loads of scandal and drama, at someone else's expense. It's of a private nature, about someones lesser moments in life. Studies show that gossip exists because people bond strongly through [|negative] communication. But how could this be? I would rather bond with others through positive interest than negative ones. There must have been some reason in our distant past that negative bonding was so important. Maybe gossip saved us from being harmed or was a matter of survival. Whatever the reason, cost, or benefit, we as humans in modern times cannot completely separate ourselves from the clutches of [|gossip]. THOSE WHO GOSSIP ARE VIEWED AS TROUBLEMAKERS WHOS WORDS SPREAD LIKE WILD FIRE. The [|truth] is that everyone gossips a little without even thinking about it through the course of sharing information about ourselves, friends and family. For most, a little gossip of a good nature is okay. But everyone knows that friend in a social circle who seems to have the dirt on everyone else. No one in this person's sight is spared from a gossipers inquiring mind. This person is what I like to call the "teller" of gossip. They are powerful in that, when they tell their tales everyone listens and the news spreads like wild fire. This goes back to our strong desire to bond through negative information. There is always a teller or two within a circle of friends. In a way, tellers and listeners are alike in that, collectively, we are focusing on others when engaged in gossip, instead of focusing on ourselves. Maybe it's easier to sit in judgement over others than ourselves. At any rate once a teller is found out, many will try and avoid this person as to keep themselves out of the [|gossip mill]. Info taken: []

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